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A key principle of Feng Shui is
that everything is connected with chi. Your thoughts, feelings,
emotions are all influenced by the surrounding you live and work in.
A dark, untidy bedroom creates a feeling of depression, fatigue and
tiredness. To create and maintain a joyous, loving relationship you
need to tidy up your bedroom and surroundings first and make space
for the new relationship.
To improve your luck in love
firstly you need to identify your power spots for love and romance
and then Feng Shui those spots.
Identify your Love Power
Spots
The Feng Shui ‘ba gua’ divides
all spaces into 8 sections each of which affects a specific aspect
of life. Love and marriage are influenced by the ‘Kun gua’ or South
West sector of your home. Secondary Kun guas are the south west
sectors of each room in the house.
To identify your power spots use
the following steps.
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Use a compass and
figure out the room or rooms that are located in the SW
direction of your house. Generally if you stand at the entrance
to your home, the SW will fall somewhere to the rear and right.
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Now, cross of all
stairways, narrow hallways, closets, bathrooms and bedrooms
occupied by others, off your list. These places don’t make good
romantic spots (some may beg to differ but we’ll go with the
larger majority here). If your bedroom, living room, dining room
or kitchen or any comfortable, pleasant room falls SW, keep it
on the list. These are good Feng Shui Love Power Spots.
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Your bedroom is
always a great power spot so keep it on the list even if it’s
not SW. If your bedroom does fall SW this is the strongest
relationship power spot in your home.
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Now find the
relationship power spots in your bedroom. Stand at the entrance
and locate the far corner on your right. If this is also the SW,
then this is a super love power spot to enhance with Feng Shui.
Make a note!
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If the two areas in
your bedroom (far right and SW) are not the same then compare
the two. Which one is brighter, more cheerful, cleaner, and more
attractive and has more potential to add Feng Shui objects? A
wall where you could hang a picture, a desk to place a photo or
bedside table, the fireplace mantel or a bookcase.
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Now in the exact
same manner find the love power spots in the other rooms on your
list. Decide between the SW or the far right corners depending
on the scope for Feng Shui enhancements.
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By the end of this
exercise you should have at least 3 good love power spots.
Remember that the strongest power spots will be in your bedroom
and those rooms where you spend most of your time.
Identifying the Love Power Spots
is just step one. You now need to enhance these areas with Feng Shui
objects. Feng Shui objects are very cheap and easy on your pocket,
so even with a minimal budget you can buy some. Listed below are
some good Feng Shui objects to enhance your Love Power Spots.
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Fresh flowers
with red or pink blossoms. We don’t really need Feng Shui to
tell us about this one do we?
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A red, pink or
white heart shaped box.
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Two red silk
roses in a pretty vase.
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Two red or pink
candles set side-by-side. Please note that the number two is
important as it denotes a couple. Having just one will have
a negative effect on the relationship as one is for solitude
and loneliness. Having more than two will gather a crowd.
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Imagery,
painting or other artwork representing lovers.
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Two round or
heart shaped red or pink pillows. Square and rectangle
pillows are a no-no.
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A pink faceted
Feng Shui crystal hung over your bed or a power spot.
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Imagery or
artwork of pairs of mandarin ducks, swans or doves.
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The Chinese
symbol for ‘double’ happiness.
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Any image or
object that is has a strong personal meaning related to
love, marriage and happiness especially for you.
There’s much more to Feng Shui
than just activating your Love Power Spots but this is a great place
to start! |
