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Just for Women
Astrological Profile for
Kim Basinger
by Gloria Star
Your Chart Data
Name:
Kim Basinger
Date: Dec 08, 1953
Time: 11:04:00 AM EST +05:00
Place: Athens, GA
083W22'41" 33N57'39"
Natal Chart for Kim Basinger
Placidus House System
Sun
in Sagittarius, at 16° 17', in the tenth house, Fire,
Mutable.
Moon in Capricorn, at 12° 50', in the
twelfth house, Earth, Cardinal.
Mercury in Scorpio, at 27° 21', in the
tenth house, Water, Fixed.
Venus in Sagittarius, at 03° 45', in
the tenth house, Fire, Mutable.
Mars in Libra, at 22° 50', in the
eighth house, Air, Cardinal.
Jupiter in Gemini, at 22° 05', in the
fifth house, Air, Mutable.
Saturn in Scorpio, at 05° 24', in the
ninth house, Water, Fixed.
Uranus in Cancer, at 22° 25', in the
sixth house, Water, Cardinal.
Neptune in Libra, at 25° 23', in the
eighth house, Air, Cardinal.
Pluto in Leo, at 24° 59', in the
seventh house, Fire, Fixed.
Midheaven in Scorpio, at 27° 02',
Water, Fixed.
Ascendant in Aquarius, at 09° 48',
Air, Fixed.
Elemental Balance:
3 Fire, 1 Earth, 4 Air, 4 Water.
Modal Balance:
4 Cardinal, 5 Fixed, 3 Mutable.
Just for Women
An Astrological Portrait
Prepared for Kim Basinger
Your astrological chart provides an amazing guidepost
to the most important aspect of your life: an understanding of yourself.
As a woman today, you face the challenge of discovering yourself within
the context of many life experiences. You wear a variety of faces and
play many roles, experiences which can both enhance and complicate your
feeling of satisfaction with yourself and your life. Your astrological
chart provides indicators which help to define who you are,
strengthening an understanding of your needs on every level. Each chart
is different in its make-up, and the myriad combinations of influences
help to underscore the importance of each person as an individual. One
thing you must remember when working with astrology: it is through your
free will that you make choices. Your "chart" does not make you do
anything!
We are finally acknowledging and realizing within
today's world, that men and women experience life differently. The
workings of your psyche, symbolized by your astrological chart, are
likely to be experienced quite differently through your filter as a
woman than they would be if you were born male. This report is designed
for you, a woman in a world of change, a woman seeking to become whole.
Your natal, or birth, chart is made up of several
factors. Drawn upon a circular wheel, your natal chart shows the
positions of the planets relative to your place, date and time of birth.
Everything is indicated symbolically, with each symbol having specific
meanings. The planets, Sun and Moon are placed around the circle, and
each is placed within a particular degree of a sign of the zodiac. The
planets, Sun and Moon are energy bodies, and the astrological signs
indicate how these energies work. Just as you are a complex of feelings,
needs, drives and desires - your natal chart maps these qualities. You
will also notice that the planetary symbols fall within particular
segments of the circle. These segments, called "Houses", indicate the
specific environments and relationships which are part of your life. You
may find, upon reading your report, that there are a few contradictions.
For example, one factor may indicate independence, while another shows
strong dependency. It is not unusual to experience contradictions within
yourself, and that is just what your chart illustrates about you! But
when you reflect upon these qualities within the context in which they
are explained, you may discover some self-illuminating facts about
yourself. Self-understanding has a marvelous way of emphasizing your
personal power!
An Overall Glimpse
at Your Astrological Chart
The astrological signs are defined by one of four
elements: fire, earth, air or water. The fire and air elements have a
yang (masculine polarity) quality, and tend to be more outgoing and
assertive in their nature, whereas the earth and water elements have a
yin (feminine polarity) quality, and are more receptive by nature. The
elemental balance in your chart is determined by the amount of energy
within each elemental sign. The factors added together to find this
balance of energy include the Sun, Moon, planets and the angles of the
Ascendant and Midheaven.
The predominance of both air and water in your chart
can indicate high levels of sensitivity which operate on many levels.
But evidence of that sensitivity may be seen most powerfully through
your endless creativity and fertile imagination. Your perceptive
abilities are quite keen, since you can be both detached and involved in
decision-making processes. You may be an excellent healer and counselor,
since you can sense and objectify emotions for those who seek your
advice. Although you can be comfortable with highly intellectual types,
you also love the company of the creative, artistic and musical who may
share many of your own interests. You need relationships which give you
plenty of freedom, but which allow you to express the full range of your
emotions and needs. The elemental balance in your astrological chart
indicates that earth is a weak factor, signifying that you may sometimes
feel a need for greater stability. Practical matters may not always be a
primary consideration when making major decisions. The problem with
little earth is usually related to not being in touch with the physical
plane, which can cause you to lose your focus or to ignore physical
reality. During the times in your life when you feel out of touch or
uncertain, get back to nature. Take a walk in the park or woods, garden,
hug a tree, work with clay, or get a massage to remind yourself that you
are part physical, too!
Another aspect of your basic nature is determined by
the balance of the modes in your chart. The modes are also defined by
sign, which are grouped together as either cardinal, fixed or mutable.
You have fixed energy strongest, which helps to account for your ability
to stay with a project, relationship or idea until you are satisfied or
until your responsibility is fulfilled. The downfall of this strength is
not knowing when to let go, and you can be quite stubborn when facing
the possibility of change or challenge. However, you also have a strong
level of cardinality, which is expressed through your motivational
spirit and your ability to initiate new situations or relationships.
When you view your chart as a whole, you'll notice
that there is an emphasis of planets on the top half of the chart. This
hemisphere strength indicates that you are driven by a need for
recognition, and that you can be quite comfortable in the public eye.
Career may have a high priority for you, and if you are not employed
outside the home, you may be quite busy in community or civic affairs.
You are drawn by the world, and your need for validation is most easily
satisfied when your achievements are acknowledged and respected in some
way. You may be quite influential in the lives of others, and have
strong potential as a leader, teacher or mentor. However, you also need
to remember that you must allow some "down" time, and that your home and
family may provide an important security base.
You may also be concerned with the areas in your
chart which appear to be empty. Never fear, these houses are not really
vacant! You are just not placing as much emphasis in these relationships
or environments, or you may be satisfying these needs through other
dimensions of your life.
Projection of Your
Real Self
Sometimes showing the world who you really are is not
easy, and sometimes the world may not respond as you had hoped! It's
helpful to take a look at the differences and similarities between the
attitudes, impressions and images you project and the person who resides
at the core of your being.
With your Sun in Sagittarius you are a woman who
thrives on the grand adventure of life. You may feed this urge through
travel or education, but you also fulfill it through your spiritual
quests. Your enthusiasm is difficult to miss, and you can inspire others
to reach beyond their limitations through the example of your own life.
But you can also be difficult to follow, and may head into a new
territory before you've even warmed your chair.
Your Ascendant is the face you present to the world,
and shows how others see you. Your Ascendant, or rising sign, is
Aquarius. You may be quite avant-garde and can be a trendsetter. It's
possible that your disdain for the traditional and affinity for the
unusual can leave an impression of eccentricity. You can carry it off,
however, because you're not meant to follow the cookie-cutter patterns:
you're creating one of your own! Freedom is highly important to you,
and your need for spontaneity enhances your ability to find the truly
unique elements life has to offer. Uranus, the planetary energy
associated with your rising sign, is in Cancer in your chart. Although
you prefer to be seen as unique, you may struggle with the idea of being
totally alone. Your ideas about what you need in a family may go against
the traditional roles, and you may prefer to avoid being tagged with the
role of housewife.
With Saturn in square aspect to your Ascendant you
can be somewhat overbearing with your attitudes toward life. It's easier
for you to see what is wrong than to see what is right, and you can be
especially negative when you're facing a difficult challenge. When you
step back and look at yourself, you may realize that a part of you
actually likes challenges. It's the scrutiny and criticism from those
who seem to deride your worth that hurts. By learning to accept both
your strengths and limitations, you can make choices which involve
challenges that lead to growth and stability, instead of challenges
which undermine your sense of self. You may cultivate more effective
ways to separate your responsibilities for yourself from your
responsibilities toward others. Then you can more easily step away from
the guilt which arises when you are not carrying burdens which actually
do not belong to you!
There are many different facets of the Moon in your
chart. But when it comes to your identity, your Moon speaks volumes
about who you are at the deepest level: the soul of your being. Your
Capricorn Moon is that part of you which stand on solid ground when
everything around you is slipping or changing. You can move with change.
In fact, you can even initiate changes by continuing on your climb. You
may be exceptionally ambitious, and need goals in order to maintain your
focus. Taking charge is easy for you, but your reluctance to relinquish
control can be your downfall. When you sense that things are out of
harmony, try to get back to nature - or at least stand on the cool
grass. Connecting to the earth is connecting to yourself.
Understanding Your
Inner Feminine Self
Although the temptation is to think that just because
you are a woman you are in touch with your inner feminine self, this is
a much more complicated task than it appears to be! First of all, the
model for the true power of femininity has been lost over recent history
and is now becoming re-energized. Recovering this power is a personal
task for each woman, and learning to use feminine power constructively
on a collective level is another challenge for today's woman. This
process is the cradle of self-healing, and provides the essence of your
personal security.
The primary energies associated with your inner
feminine self are the Moon and Venus, but Neptune and Pluto are also
significant in your experience and expression of this part of your
psyche. The Moon is the energy which filters through your subconscious
self, and tells the story of your connection to the part of you which
provides nurturing, support, care and comfort. The person who projects
the model for your Moon energy is your mother, and you see her through
the lens of your own emotional matrix, signified by the Moon. As you
mature, you learn to send this energy into the world, but to be truly
effective, you must first own this energy and know how to use it to care
for yourself!
The energy of your Capricorn Moon supports your need
to accomplish your goals. You may be driven to succeed, and whether you
are focused upon attaining that sense of accomplishment through a career
or within a family setting, you are not likely to cease your pursuit
until you are satisfied. You place a high value on hard work, and do not
mind burning midnight oil if it means that you will achieve your aims.
This drive is impossible to miss. Your sense of responsibility has
always been there; even when you were a little girl you may have felt an
obligation to achieve, and may have placed great emphasis upon pleasing
your parents and gaining their accolades. As a woman, you may be so
focused upon achievement that you have little time for such frivolous
pleasures as romance and recreation. But the little girl inside you
still wants to get out and play. (Did you ever get a chance when you
were small?) Crying in public may simply be unacceptable to you, but so
may holding hands with your sweetheart while you're walking into your
favorite restaurant. Perhaps excessive emotional displays do seem to
waste your energy, but until you let your feelings out, you will always
have a wall between your heart and the soul of life. Perhaps it's the
guilt that keeps you from walking away from the job at noon on Friday
and taking a long weekend. And perhaps it's fear. Dealing with fear is a
primary factor for you. You are a realistic thinker, and may "know" what
could happen if you're not planning for contingencies or calculating
risks. Consequently, you are also a prime candidate for depression. Once
you've fallen into a depressive rut, your melancholy can invade your
sense of personal power, and you may feel that you've lost everything.
Where is your salvation? It is in the space just next to your fear: your
sense of humor. You see the ridiculous part of life that is also the
struggle, and you do know how to laugh at it all. Make it a point
everyday to read the funnies, to see the humor in the news, to find the
joy in the eyes of a child. When you're smiling, so much more is
possible. Your sense of responsibility may be so powerful that you
attract people who need to be parented. Always caring for the needs of
everyone else can sap your vitality, and you may ultimately grow to
resent the fact that everybody is so dependent upon you to always be
there to bail them out. But it will never change until you can
relinquish your need to be in control of everything (and everyone), just
so you can feel safe. Let go. Give your husband or kids a chance to be
responsible for themselves. And ask for support when you need it. You
need to feel the tender touch of love, so give it a try on a regular
basis. Hug therapy may be just what you're seeking. Maybe you could
sneak a teddy bear into your briefcase....
Your Moon and Mercury are in semisquare aspect,
stimulating frustration between your thoughts and feelings. It can be
difficult for you to express your deeper feelings verbally without
feeling overly exposed emotionally. And you can also have trouble
separating your feelings about someone or something from your need to
make rational decisions. It's important to acknowledge your emotional
sensibilities, but learning to distinguish your own anxieties or
prejudices from the facts can be a truly anxiety-provoking situation. By
maintaining deep levels of emotional stability through self-awareness,
meditation or even in counseling situations you may finally be able to
give each part of yourself credence when it comes time to make those
major life choices.
The conflict between what you need and what you want
is signified by the energy of your Moon in semisquare aspect to Venus.
Creating an awareness of your deeper feelings is the only way out of
this conflict, especially when it comes to relationships. In other
choices like career decisions, this tension arises when you have to face
something like asking for a raise, changing jobs for personal reasons,
or climbing up the ladder in a manner which seems personally awkward.
Although you may sometimes think that it would just be easier to let
somebody else tell you what to do, you are not likely to be satisfied
with the end results unless your own needs and list of preferences are
carefully considered.
Your Moon is in opposition aspect to Uranus, adding a
high level of unpredictability to your emotional nature and a need for
personal independence. You need excitement, change and distraction, but
at levels you can tolerate without totally disrupting your life. You may
also be more comfortable when you're independent, instead of being tied
to a set schedule, a certain role or a particular list of demands. As an
independent woman, you are more likely to tolerate commitments. If
you're expected or demanded to do certain things, you may just rebel for
the sake of rebellion. After all, you're an individual! There may be
other planetary aspects in your chart which add a level of focus and
stability to your life, but this influence alone can disrupt even the
best laid plans! At the level of your soul you cry out to be seen and
accepted for who you are, unconditionally. That acceptance must first
come from within yourself. This influence also indicates the possibility
of higher than normal fluctuations in hormonal levels, which can also
stimulate more profound emotional changeability. Those who are close to
you probably recognize a cyclical level to your alterations in mood, and
you can probably tie them to a cycle yourself if you pay attention. You
may or may not decide to choose motherhood as an option, and may be more
comfortable in non-traditional relationships. To maintain a relationship
you need plenty of room to be yourself. And to be the kind of mother you
want to be, you need to develop a supportive relationship with your
children which has some levels of consistency. You may relate to
teen-agers more easily than to small children.
Your Moon is in the first quarter of the lunar
phases, indicating that you approach the fulfillment of your desires and
needs in an immediate manner. Your impatience with yourself and with
everyone else around you can stand in the way for true fulfillment, but
it is that same immediacy which is part of your chart. Your
impulsiveness can seem quite "unfeminine" at times, since the old myth
of femininity had much to do with "waiting for the prince." You are here
to form a new quality of relating to life: the quality of fresh
expression and spontaneity. You are here to project a powerful sense of
identity, and achieving a sense of wholeness between your inner and
outer self is an important part of your self development. The archetypal
quality of "The Mother" represented by this moon phase elicits your
strong connection to the natural rhythms of conception, creation and
birth. You may even enjoy a positive element of freshness and new life
in your projection of yourself as a woman. You'll not appreciate others
trying to shelter you too much, but may need to find a few touchstones
which will allow you to rest until you venture out into your next
experience with life, love and happiness. Your weakness may be a lack of
objectivity, and it can be difficult to find and own your power until
you have mastered some skills which add greater objectivity to your
sense of self and reality.
Through the energy of Venus you express your feminine
wiles, and also locate the part of yourself that needs to be emotionally
expressive. Your sense of inner beauty and feelings of personal worth
are also functions of Venus. Venusian energy is part of your connection
to other women, and the placement of Venus in your chart can tell you a
lot about your openness and acceptance of your own femininity. Although
your Moon may indicate your basic emotional nature, the manner by which
you express your feelings is frequently through Venusian energy.
Through the energy of Venus in Sagittarius you can be
quite direct in expressing your feelings. Your playful spirit and
fun-loving sense of adventure plays a large role in your relationships,
and you may be most expressive when you're having a wonderful time. You
can also be highly spontaneous, almost combustible, when you're
attracted to someone. If you act before you think, you may get into
trouble. But you're almost as talented at getting out of tight spots -
probably from your experience! You adore men who are intelligent and
thought-provoking, and can enjoy people from a wide variety of cultures
and backgrounds. Venus in Sagittarius definitely has a sensual side, and
you can also be rather indulgent, almost hedonistic, in your attitudes.
This live, love and be merry approach is fun during the dating scene,
but when you decide to settle into a relationship or family-oriented
lifestyle, you can change your focus. Your deeper side is looking for a
partner whose philosophy and attitudes toward life are similar to your
own, and who appreciates and practices truth and integrity. You find the
beauty of life in nature's own bounty, and may have a powerful
appreciation for the wild. When you're out in nature, communing with the
trees, mountains, streams, oceans and wildlife of the earth, your own
creativity comes alive. It is your own wild beauty, that sparkle in your
adventurous eyes, and your contagious laughter that make you truly
attractive. When you have to be in the "real" world, you may still sport
attire which would allow you to take off on an exploration at a moment's
notice. If you have to "dress up," you're at least likely to wear
comfortable shoes!
Through the blending of Mercury and Venus energies in
conjunction with one another, your manner of speaking and communicating
is enhanced. This aspect influences your ability to develop excellent
people skills, and you may be a gifted speaker, writer or lyricist.
These qualities may emerge through your manner of speech, which can be
quite elegant and charming. Your sensibilities toward others, and the
care you take in striving to create a feeling of peace and harmony can
be seen in your personal relationships as well as within the work
environment.
Although the planets Neptune and Pluto move very
slowly and are generational in nature, they do have an influence upon
your psyche. These energies define much about the collective experience
which shapes your inner self. You're experiencing Neptunian energy when
you're in the midst of reverie, when you're deep in dreams and when
you're feeling compassionate. Neptune drives your imagination, the realm
of illusion and your psychic sensibilities. Because Neptune is difficult
to grasp on a physical level, there is a lot about this energy that can
be problematic, and when you are caught in the negative grasp of
Neptune, you can give in to addictive behaviors, escapism and deception
manifesting. But you do have a way of channeling this energy. It is
through Neptune that you find the heart of compassionate love and
understanding. This is the doorway to your inner self.
With Neptune in Libra, you are part of the generation
which has been fascinated with beauty, the idea of peace and the hope of
a perfect world. Perfect relationships are part of the perfect world,
but it is your very generation that has blasted through the illusion of
dysfunctionality. Your role as a woman within a relationship is one you
are creating, along with the other women of your generation, born from
1942 to 1956. By holding a collective image of truly egalitarian and
fair-minded relationships, where each person can fully express
themselves, you have been part of a global change. The effects of this
change are still manifesting.
Pluto represents the primordial essence. It is from
this level that all transformation occurs: birth, death, illness and
healing. It is also here that the powerful kundalini force continually
regenerates itself. This is the space of all creation and all power. It
is the space of origin: the Great Mother.
With Pluto in Leo, you are part of a generation of
women born 1938 - 1957 who have had to learn about manifesting power and
breaking the illusion of the patriarchy. You are among the women who
have reshaped society. If you've developed a career, you may have done
so against an old system. Instead of destroying that power base, your
task within the collective is to change the nature of power through love
and creativity, and through honoring the sanctity of life.
Owning Your Inner
Masculine Self
For centuries, women were not allowed to assert
themselves in the world, and carefully learned the role of supporter of
their "men." Those who failed to respond in this manner were frequently
shunned or punished, although there have always been women who defied
convention! During this century particularly, women have broken out of
their strictly "conventional" roles, and have been making their way in
the world. Because of this, women have been successful at fulfilling
more of their needs, and owning their own power more readily. As a
result, a woman's relationship with the men in her life has also
changed. Despite women's collective knowledge about the need to be whole
persons, it is still sometimes easier to allow men (fathers, brothers,
lovers and husbands) to "own" certain qualities. (They, in turn, prefer
that women own certain qualities - like emotions!) But to become truly
whole and functional, it is necessary to find and incorporate your inner
masculine self into your sense of wholeness, instead of projecting that
part of yourself onto others (most usually men) in your life.
Through the process of becoming at home with your
ego, you gain a true sense of personal strength and power. To own this
power, you must learn to acknowledge that it is okay to be recognized
for who and what you are. Your Sun energy is the primary factor in the
expression of ego needs. As a young girl, you may have seen your father
through the filter of your Sun. His power of getting out into the world,
and the manner by which he did it, have shaped your own sense of
personal identity. And today, the Sun in your chart may symbolize
significant men. But this energy is, in itself, the core of your spirit.
Since you've always wondered about everything, a
certain level of personal assertiveness has always been part of your
personality. Your Sagittarius Sun energy is a powerful driver,
stimulating your sense of adventure and endless questioning and giving
you an air of excitement. You're the woman who has been comfortable
venturing out on your own, particularly if you have a strong interest
driving you. As a young girl your experience of your father may have
been especially connected to his interest in learning or his
philosophical or religious teachings may have been a stronghold in your
life. But you may also have a desire to develop these elements of your
life in your own way, and in searching for the truth of yourself are
likely to discover some differences from your upbringing. Developing
your individual identity may be easier said than done because you may
always have a tendency toward extreme reverence for your teachers and
may take the teachings too literally. Task one: separating the teacher
from the teaching will allow you to gain confidence in your individual
ability to develop a connection to divine truth. Then, as you explore
the vast nature of spirituality, you may discover a path which is
uniquely your own. This in turn influences your sense of who you are,
not just as a woman, but as a human being on a quest for the ultimate.
It's easy for you to overdo it. The influence of your
Sun in opposition to Jupiter stimulates your tendency to over-exaggerate
yourself. Sometimes you do have bragging rights, but during the times
when you feel rather ordinary, you may stretch the truth just a little.
Learning about limitation is one of your tough lessons, since you prefer
to think optimistically, and with the sense that there are only horizons
without fences. You may also expect too much from others, or feel that
they should do more for you - and this can lead to great disappointment.
To achieve the balance you seek, you need ample opportunities to move
beyond your current circumstances while still maintaining your
equilibrium.
You tend to give away too much power to the men in
your life with your Sun in semisquare aspect to Saturn, and every time
you do, you feel regret. The problem is experience: over time, you learn
to alter your fear of being in control and gradually accept more and
more responsibility for yourself and your happiness. As you do this, you
will take a more measured approach to dealing with the men in your life.
You may feel that you have to prove yourself in some way, and that's
okay as long the motivation rests in your need to satisfy yourself. But
if you're swallowing your personal pride just to please some man, you
still have work to do.
You really don't have to fix all the men in the
world, but with the influence of your Sun in semisquare aspect to
Neptune, you surely can attract needy, addicted, or unreliable men. The
more aware you are of your needs to take charge of your personal
identity, the less you will project onto men. Strangely enough, you'll
also begin to attract a different quality of men, who may still be needy
or wounded, but are working on themselves. You may feel most powerful
when you're playing the role of either victim or rescuer, but be
careful. In these scenarios, there are usually no winners.
Although you may be fascinated by powerful and
influential men, you know that you also possess a strength of your own.
You have the ability to use your influence to create healing and renewal
through the flowing energy of your Sun in trine aspect to Pluto.
Regardless of your beginnings or of your current situation, you are
capable of initiating and accomplishing great change when necessary.
Mars energy is assertive, aggressive and combative,
and can be angry. These are not "feminine" qualities. In fact, women who
possess and project these qualities from within themselves often get bad
names, and are called "ball-busters," or other expletives, by the men
who are dealing with them. But to become fully whole, you need to accept
the manner in which you can utilize your Mars energy so that you are
confident and strong with it, and so you can get into the world and make
things happen for yourself!
With all the press about Libra being peace-loving,
you may assume that your Mars in Libra would prefer not to fight. Well,
all the nasty parts of a fight may not be your style, but you certainly
know how to inspire a good battle! The truth of the matter is that you
are a fighter, and you know how to go after what you want. It's just
that, if at all possible, you'd prefer to do it in good taste!
You may wonder what you've done to deserve some of
the breaks you've experienced: just when you're in hot water, you find a
way to get out. With Mars trine Jupiter, you definitely get into a few
circumstances which are over your head, but you can make the most of
them, and somehow can come out smelling like a rose. Your confidence and
enthusiasm attract many opportunities, although you may not take
advantage of all of them. You can be a little lazy with this aspect,
particularly if you have access to sources of support which make it easy
for you to coast through life. Through applying yourself, you can go
further and make an amazing difference in the lives of others who may
truly need and appreciate your generosity or spirit.
You can be somewhat inconsistent in your
assertiveness with Mars square Uranus. Your need for excitement can
stimulate your pursuit of experiences which may be thrilling, but
dangerous. You can also waste a lot of energy pursuing those thrills
instead of creating what you really need. Freedom of expression is high
on your priority list, and you may be attracted to people who also love
freedom but have difficulty making commitments. For you commitments may
seem more momentary than long term, but until you can focus your energy
on what you truly need, you may always feel as though you are dangling
in midair.
Sometimes, your imagination just takes over, and you
have to go with the flow! With your Mars conjunct Neptune, your key to
success in any endeavor involves surrendering to the flow, instead of
pushing against it. The problem with this energy bond is that your
actions can leave an impression of vagueness. In your attempts to evade
situations you'd just as soon avoid, you may be accused of being
deceptive. You can also be the mistress of mixed messages, so try for
clarity if you want to create a position of strength. One other dilemma:
you can project too much onto the men in your life. If you do not want
to be disappointed, don't make them more than human!
Directing your energy toward the things you want is
no problem for you with Mars in sextile aspect to Pluto. When you're
focused on something, your energy can create something akin to a
"tractor beam." You know how to use your sensuality to your advantage,
and men may find you difficult to resist. Owning your power as a total
woman capable of transforming the circumstances of your life through
your own actions, you can be especially influential within your
relationships and successful in your career endeavors.
Developing Your
Mind
Education and learning are lifelong processes. Your
approach to developing your intellect is multifaceted, but there are
special indicators in your astrological chart which help you understand
the best ways to develop your mentality. Improving and strengthening
communication skills is also part of developing your mind, since
connecting to others is certainly improved if you can effectively
illustrate your point of view!
Although the energy of Mercury is traditionally
considered to be the main indicator of your mentality, there are also
other qualities which are part of your mental and intellectual self.
First, let's look at Mercury, which is the energy through which you link
your thoughts and ideas with others. Ever-curious about what lies
beneath the surface, you are prompted to become a deep thinker with
Mercury in Scorpio. You may enjoy studying nature, and your fascination
with the mysteries of life can also prompt a keen interest in fields
like medicine or metaphysics. It's not likely that you have ever been
satisfied with simple explanations, and with your ability to grasp
hidden meanings and to develop a broad perspective you can gain an
understanding which is much more gratifying. You can also be rather
stubborn and may hold to your ideas with an emotional fervor that makes
it difficult for you to get out of some of your ruts! When faced with
the challenge of learning something entirely new or different, your
first response may be to balk. If you're given time to a learning
experience, you're likely to seek out every detail.
You may enjoy learning with Mercury conjunct Venus.
However, you're likely to be a little lazy in your approach, and may not
like the disciplinary side of school as much as you like the
socializing. With an excellent ability to relate to people, you can be
an open and effective communicator.
Your inventiveness and unique approach to life
strengthen your intellectual development and ingenuity with Mercury in
trine aspect to Uranus. Technological advances are both useful and
interesting to you, and you may be quite adept at integrating new
methods into existing systems or situations. You may be a gifted writer
or public speaker and may also have a knack for reaching the masses
through media such as radio or television.
You can become quite obsessive in your thinking with
Mercury square Pluto. Although this can be useful when you're involved
in an investigation or research project, it can be overwhelming when
you're trying to relax at the end of the day. Your need to know what is
at the core of everything can drive you to explore things that frighten
some people, and you may make important headway. But knowing when to
give yourself a break is another story.
The energy of your Moon also has a mental component.
The Moon is the realm of thought, the process of subconscious thinking,
and plays a strong role in intuitive thinking. Your practical nature
permeates your approach to learning with your Moon in Capricorn. Your
sense of structure stimulates your need to have a definitive path in
your learning experience, and you may feel especially close to the
teachers who have strongly influenced your life. Your need for respect
may prompt you to pursue educational options which underscore your
capabilities and give you a stable platform for personal and
professional growth. Discipline is probably not a problem for you,
although you may resist being restrained by the "system."
Jupiter also plays an important role in learning,
stimulating you to look ahead into the realm of possibility, beyond the
horizon of the now. Through the energy of Jupiter, you share what you
know with others. As a woman, you are likely to feel most at home when
you use this energy to encourage and support others, but you can also
apply this to yourself! Your philosophical approach to life and learning
is rather eclectic with Jupiter in Gemini - kind of live and let live in
your attitudes. You may also appreciate the diversity of ideas and
cultures existing on the planet and can benefit from exploring them.
Sometimes, you may think you have to know about all of them, but the
important part may be to discover the link between the many schools of
thought and cultures on our world. Oh, that's right, you're not limited
to this world... what about life in other galaxies? How do they run
their cities? Now, that should really get you going!
Your expectations of yourself are always high, and
this may extend to your need to learn as much as possible with your Sun
in opposition to Jupiter. However, you can also overestimate your
abilities and may jump into situations ill-prepared or overly-confident.
This can lead to a tendency to underachieve because you have not
thoroughly prepared yourself. To create the balance in your life which
will allow you to grow on every level, you need to determine a
reasonable set of goals and then apply yourself to the efforts required
to realize them.
Your enthusiasm and confidence help you tackle most
any task and accomplish your aims. The influence of Mars in trine aspect
to Jupiter adds a special spark to your desire to reach beyond your
limitations, and can spur you to follow many pathways in your search for
excellence. You may also have good luck, seeming to be in the right
place at the right time. Part of this arises from your ability to trust
your own sense of vision for the future: you can see the path and then
you take action and follow it.
Your desire to learn may be focused upon a need to
understand the mystical side of life with Jupiter in trine aspect to
Neptune. Your education may be strongly influenced by your religious or
spiritual beliefs, and it is through these ideals that you may also
experience some of your most profound opportunities for personal growth.
Your perceptive abilities can be highly developed
with Jupiter in sextile aspect to Pluto. This can be quite helpful when
you're involved in research or investigation, since your sixth sense may
lead you to discover things that the cold facts might ignore.
The purpose of Saturn is to provide clarity,
structure, form and discipline - elements which are certainly important
to learning. Saturn functions primarily as your inner teacher. Mothers
are the most influential Saturnian models in western society. They
provide the structure, guidance and support for their children in the
realms of learning, socialization or personal growth. Once you enter
society as a child, teachers play the Saturnian role. But the role of
mothers and teachers in relationship to Saturn is to help you define the
structure upon which you will build your life. Then, you "own" your
Saturn, and know how to discipline and focus your own energy.
You can be a resourceful student and quite adept in
research and investigation with Saturn in Scorpio. You may learn better
and perform at your peak when you feel safe and well-protected.
Circumstances which leave you feeling exposed are threatening,
especially if you're working on something important or developing a
creative project or idea. You prefer to work in relative secrecy and may
not appreciate having your efforts exposed without your permission. Life
science, medicine, psychology and metaphysics are good areas for your
study and focus.
The areas of your chart which are connected most
strongly to mental and intellectual development are the 3rd, 9th and
11th Houses. The 3rd House of your chart deals with communication and
the development of concepts.
Your approach to communicating and making contact
with the world is direct and to the point with Aries on the cusp of your
3rd House. Your mental activity level can be consistently strong, and
you have the potential to be a dynamic speaker or writer. Mental
challenges, such as puzzles and brain teasers, can be enjoyable, but you
may also get fired up in a good debate. You can be argumentative with
Mars ruling your 3rd House, and are uncomfortable when you have to stay
on a schedule. Learning things on your own and striking out on an
individual path can be very exciting and may be the most mentally
stimulating challenges of your life.
There are no planets in your 3rd House, indicating
that developing your communicative capacities is not one of your highest
priorities. However this does not indicate an impairment in your
thinking or a lack of intellectual development. To further understand
your approach to communication reflect upon the meaning of the sign on
the cusp of this house, explained above, and study the influence of
Mercury in its sign and house as indicators of the best ways to develop
your intellect.
Your 9th House shows your approach to higher
learning, which is usually accomplished through a college or
professional degree program. Subjects like philosophy, religion,
political science, cultural pursuits and the like are strongly
associated with this facet of your development.
You may see education as a means of refining your
innate ability to learn and understand with Libra on the cusp of your
9th House. Your love of literature, philosophy and fine arts may lead
you to study them further or to become quite adept in developing your
own esthetic abilities. The social aspect of higher education may have
been quite enjoyable during your college days, and you may still love to
be around others who are fascinated by ideas. Study groups, community or
church activities, and politics may be allow you to further your
interests. With Venus ruling this house your own sensibilities may be a
bit more refined. Coarse speech or destructive behavior may fly in the
face of what you feel is proper and socially acceptable.
Saturn's influence in your 9th House enhances your
desire to learn and strengthen your understanding. You may have followed
strict religious teachings when you were a young girl and may still have
powerful beliefs. Your fears can stand in the way of moving beyond your
early training, but your desire to know and understand the truths of
life on your own terms is also quite powerful. As you've matured, you
may also have learned ways to expand your spiritual understanding and
are developing a very workable spirituality. Your philosophical outlook
is based on practicality and usefulness, and you may have a powerful
work ethic. You must be careful to avoid becoming a workaholic, although
your precision and attention to detail are appreciated by those who
utilize your talents or employ your expertise. You can be an exceptional
teacher, but may be too critical when your students fail to meet your
expectations. High standards accompany everything you do, and you may
insist that your own children follow a high moral code. Your lessons in
life may involve learning greater tolerance and acceptance of each
individual for her or himself, although those who are close to you know
that your desires for excellence can prompt anyone to accomplish more
than they dreamed possible.
Through the 11th House you learn from peers, and
connect with your community. The 11th House involves your special
interests, too. This is very much the school of life, because this is
also the area which relates to developing your goals.
You aim high with Sagittarius on the cusp of your
11th House. "The sky's the limit!" may be your approach to pursuing your
goals, and you see no reason to limit yourself to known horizons. You
need to explore the ultimate, to experience the unusual, to find
adventure. But if you become too distracted from your path toward
achievement, you can undermine your ability to reach those ultimate
heights. Jupiter's energy rules this part of your life, and adds a sense
of expansion and optimism to your goals. Because of this, even when you
do experience setbacks, you're quite capable of retreating and starting
again with even more enthusiasm than you possessed before.
There are no planets in your 11th House, indicating
that you may not find it necessary or important to develop a strict set
of goals, and that you may not seek out confirmation and support from
others in order to reach a sense of fulfillment. To further understand
your special interests look to the sign on the cusp of this house
explained in the section above, and study the placement of Uranus in
your chart to determine where you find your best allies.
Your Special Edge
It's true. Women are definitely the intuitive sex.
The process of intuitive awareness may be more developed for you as a
woman because you are more cyclically aware, thanks to your anatomy and
hormonal changes. But there is something more. As a woman, your natural
affinity with the energy of the Moon increases your receptivity, an
important ingredient in opening to the intuitive process. Intuitive
awareness is multifaceted. You can use it when you're dealing with
emotional and psychological issues, you can apply it to your creative
expression, and you can take advantage of your intuition in your work as
part of your decision-making. Developing your intuitive process is like
developing any other sensibility - you have to concentrate some time,
effort and energy in order to finely hone this element of your psyche.
Although some quality of intuition may be there innately, to make the
most of it, you must learn to trust, listen and incorporate it into your
life.
The parts of your chart which are most strongly
associated with intuitive sensibility are the water houses: the 4th
House, the 8th House and the 12th House. The 4th House is connected to
your soul history. It is here that you seek a sense of home, a
connection to your family, and a feeling of safety and comfort. It is
here that your soul remembers your past, even if your conscious mind
cannot fit the pieces together.
With Taurus on the cusp of your 4th House, you may
feel a powerful drive to create a stable, secure base of operations.
Sometimes, however, you can be so focused on external values that you
forget the importance of forging a meaningful connection to the deeper
purpose of your life. With the energy of Venus influencing this house,
you are learning that one of your keys to unlocking the mysteries of
your soul history is through your heart. When you can open to the
essence of love which resides in the center of your being and allow this
love to flow into your environment and those within it, your soul is
nourished and you are whole.
There are no planets in your 4th House indicating
that you may not assert a strong level of conscious energy in building a
connection to your soul. This does not mean that you cannot achieve an
inner sense of recall regarding your soul's history or your deeper
needs, but indicates instead that you may find the doorway through other
activities or experiences beyond your connection to your family of
origin or their traditions. To further understand this gateway to your
soul, study the sign on the cusp of this house explained above for the
influences which will help you remember your spiritual past.
The 8th House brings you into your deepest emotional
attachments, and is the space where you are alchemically transformed.
This is the seat of your magical power: your ability to change yourself
in order to become whole. Here is the heart of healing, but here you
also hide your greatest vulnerabilities. Most people shy away from
dealing with 8th House issues like sex, death and taxes. After all,
there can be problems with any of them, and they are not easy to explore
out in the open. But there is more. For your intuitive development, this
area represents the part of you which holds your power, and you must
learn to accept and embrace this side of yourself to feel truly
satisfied with your life.
With Virgo on the cusp of your 8th House you may be
learning that everything cannot be understood through the mind, although
you may try your hardest to make sense of the realm of life which
pertains to the ultimate transformational changes - birth, death,
sexuality and healing. You may feel that unless you can grasp an
intellectual understanding, that certain things are invalid. You want
proof that there is life after death, not just theories or stories. You
may not really be interested in opening your mind to another level of
thinking if science of logic cannot suffice. Yet, if you are seeking to
uncover the mysteries, the clues may reside in the obvious. Life itself
provides the answers you're seeking, through the continual cycles of
nature which illustrate the patterns of change and rebirth. Mercury's
influence in this area of your life can be helpful if you are
approaching these needs with an open mind. But you can be overly
analytical and forget the importance of opening your heart and listening
to your inner voice.
Through the energy of Mars in your 8th House, you are
stimulated to dive into the depths of life. Your courageous approach to
exploring the nature of personal transformation may lead you into a
profound understanding of your own inner psyche. It can also play a role
in your ability to help others who are in need of healing, change and
personal growth. Active forms of inner strengthening, such as martial
arts, hatha yoga, chi gong, or dance can help you to use your body as a
means of discovering your personal power and lead to total healing.
Your psychic impressions can be quite powerful with
Neptune in your 8th House. Your sensitivity can be quite strong in
matters which involve health or death, but you may also be aware of the
potential for destructive or transformational changes in your
environment. If undeveloped, you may just "sense" that things are
happening, or your visions may come through your dreams. If you wish to
further develop this sensibility, it is important to learn how to create
a strong filter so that you can become a better "viewer" instead of
feeling these things on a personal emotional level.
The 12th House is the space of your dreams. Here, you
surrender your conscious self and float into the beyond. This is also
the place in your psyche which contains your past, and where you are one
with all humanity. Your super conscious self rests in this part of your
psyche: the part of yourself that transcends your everyday reality.
You may be fascinated with the idea of trying to
control your subconscious self with Capricorn on the cusp of your 12th
House. There is a distinctive difference between mindfulness, which
involves focused awareness, and negative restraint. Your goal is that of
attaining true mindfulness and of overcoming selfish desires. Saturn's
influence of this house adds a distinctive sense that you are bound by
karmic ties to complete certain things in your life. By focusing your
awareness to your inner self and unlocking your fears, you may begin to
release yourself. Your experience of the importance of taking
responsibility for yourself and for the evolution of your soul can allow
you to transcend mere physical attainment and accomplish true spiritual
awakening.
With the energy of your Moon in the 12th House your
emotional sensibilities play a powerful role in your intuitive
awareness. Your ability to feel the energy around you at a vibrational
level is intensified, and you may have difficult separating your own
feelings from those of the people around you. Although this quality can
be quite helpful in situations which involve counseling or other
therapeutic services, it may add to your emotional fatigue unless you've
learned how to create an emotional filter. Clearing your energy through
conscious focus, allowing you to release any emotional energy you've
absorbed from dealing with others, can make a big difference in your
sense of vitality and emotional resilience.
The energy of your Moon plays an important role in
your intuitive development. Since your Moon is related to your
subconscious mind, it should not surprise you that this is the part of
you that contains all knowledge about yourself and your life.
Occasionally it's a good idea to purge from your psyche the things you
no longer need - much like an internal house cleaning. Your hormonal
cycles provide an excellent opportunity to do just that, and by using
this natural rhythm to release, you can feel much more open to clearer
transmission of intuitive thinking!
Your intuitive sensibilities extend into the realm of
the practical. Your Capricorn Moon functions much like an anchoring
device, helping you keep your feet on the ground. But you are quite
sensitive, too. You feel things through your environment, and flow a
great deal of energy into your environments. That's why it is sometimes
difficult to move, or to adapt to a new place. Gathering your energy to
relocate is, of course, possible, but you do it much better when you are
in control of the relocation! And when you arrive in a new place, it
takes a while to grow your roots. The same is true of relationships with
people - you need a little time before you open your energy to them.
Once you do, your connection is quite powerful.
There are other points related to the Moon which
you'll find in your chart. They are called the Moon's Nodes, and are not
planets, but points in space. The influence of the Moon's Nodes is felt
on an inner level. From the South Node, you learn about your past and
the natural inclinations which may influence many of your subconscious
choices. In some ways, the South Node suggests old habits. The North
Node of the Moon suggests a spiritual and emotional challenge, and
represents the directions you may feel compelled to follow in your
evolutionary path.
Challenged with the task of learning to carry your
responsibilities in a mature manner, you are learning the importance of
sustained effort with your North Node in Capricorn. You may also be
fascinated by the processes of aging and the wisdom which requires time
to develop, although you may struggle against them to some extent.
Becoming involved in activities which allow you to be responsible and
positively ambitions, you may discover that you really enjoy reaching
the heights of achievement. The influence of your Cancer South Node
tempts you to be overly sensitive to feeling of rejection or
abandonment, instead of learning to stand on your own. The confidence
and judgment you develop will not only resolve some of your fears, but
may give you the energy you need to become a trustworthy guide of
generations who will follow in your footsteps.
Uranian intuition is the flash of insight. Sometimes
that flash is so brilliant that you change your entire life to follow
it's glow. This is also the part of you which defies restraint, and
certainly your intuitive mind can celebrate that possibility!
You can be highly inventive in your approach to your
work with Uranus in the 6th House. Since you have a 6th sense about
working with technological devices, you may enjoy spending time using
computers, playing with gadgets or developing inventive devices. You may
also have a special sensibility to health and healing and may gain great
benefit from participating in or developing alternative healing
methods.
Neptune's energy takes you into the world of the
etheric - the place beyond the physical which is filled with mystical
wonder. You surrender to this part of yourself when you meditate, when
you give in to your creative muse, and when you give of yourself to
others. In developing your intuitive and psychic sensibilities, Neptune
provides a primary ingredient: letting go. Through this energy you
surrender yourself to the greater truth. But be careful: you can also
surrender your will to the power of deception and abuse through another
of Neptune's doorways!
The influence of Neptune in your 8th House has been
explored earlier in this section of your report.
Pluto's insight is on the deeper psychic level.
Through Plutonian energy you can read between the lines. You see the
twitch of an eye that tells the truth, you read the movement of hands,
the tone of voice that betrays what words fail to say. Developing your
Plutonian energy requires that you reach into the very depths of
yourself and become familiar with your entire being. Yes, that includes
your shadow self, your darker side - and it also encompasses your
passion, your strength of survival and your ability to heal.
You can be quite adept in helping to bring about
social change with Pluto in your 7th House. Whether you accomplish this
by challenging outmoded ideas about relationships, getting involved in
law or politics or quietly undermining useless prejudices, you can be a
healer of social ills. Finding the direction which will allow you to
effect positive growth and change adds strength and power to your life.
Nurturing and
Creating a Home
Nurturing. Mothering. These experiences are
associated with womanliness, but are not the sole definers of your
womanhood. Although women are the only ones who can become mothers, it
is not necessary to be a mother to become an exceptional nurturer!
Nurturing is a natural expression for women - but the manner in which it
is done is very individualized. Whether with children, lovers, partners,
friends - or even with your own parents - you have ample opportunities
to nurture others. The person who needs your nurturing most, however, is
YOU. Although caring for others can fill a special place in your soul,
the way you care for yourself is especially important. You may derive
nourishment from developing your talents and skills, or through your
work. Study or travel can be nourishing. And something as simple as a
long soak in the tub can refill your spirit. Part of nourishing yourself
is physical, part emotional and part is definitely environmental: what
you create in a home. In exploring these factors together, you can begin
to see the link between these different levels of personal fulfillment.
Yet another facet of your Moon beyond what you've
already explored, is what your Moon shows about your deepest needs. You
can only feel whole when these needs are answered and fulfilled.
Although it is tempting to look outside, your wisdom tells you that a
great part of the responsibility for nourishment comes from within
yourself.
Work. Work. Work. That may seem to be all you do with
your Moon in Capricorn. Since you may always be involved in taking on
responsibilities, you may also be a magnet for stress. When nurturing
others, you tend to just take care of everything and may feel that life
is easier that way. But you also know the importance of guiding your
children to be responsible for themselves, and can teach this in many
ways. One of the best is to take care of yourself by making sure that
you're carrying only those burdens which belong to you, and
relinquishing those which do not. At home you need to feel secure and in
harmony with the natural order of things. You may enjoy the feeling of
being around trees, or surrounded by naturally occurring structures like
mountains, hills or rock formations. Allow time during your busy week to
hike in the woods or a park, to get into your garden, to climb a tree
with your kids. In the winter, get into the mountains to snow ski. See
your chiropractor regularly, get plenty of calcium in your diet,
exercise to strengthen your bones if nothing more. And when you
vacation, get into nature whenever possible.
Saturn also plays a positive role in nurturance.
Despite the bad rap Saturn sometimes receives, this energy is necessary
to your stability and growth. Through Saturn, you learn to take
responsibility for yourself and your actions. Saturn also seems to be
the repository of your fears, and it's important to understand and deal
with these emotions in order to be whole. Trying to repress such
feelings blocks your ability to feel the positive, supportive energy
that life has to offer. In many respects, the energy of Saturn is played
out in your life by your experience with authority figures. Your mother
and father, extended family and teachers were your primary Saturnian
influences when you were a young girl, and their direction and guidance
still whisper in the way you approach establishing your personal
security. As an adult woman, you express Saturn through the manner in
which you take responsibility for yourself and your needs for stability
and security.
Your interest in restoration permeates every part of
your life, and is strongly influenced by your Saturn in Scorpio. Even if
you sometimes fall short, you understand the importance of making the
most of your life and its resources. Your influence upon others who
cannot see the value in something on the surface can be immense, because
you are the master of removing the crust and exposing the jewel at the
core. You may also know when there's nothing there to expose, in which
instance you can take what is useless or outworn and recycle it in the
best possible manner. This attitude may be especially emphasized since
you are a woman and experience the variations related to the cyclical
changes within your own body. You can learn to make the use of the
different levels of energy which occur at different times to become more
productive, more secure and more confident in the natural order of
things.
Your 4th House illuminates what you need in a home
environment, where you will feel most comfortable and how you like to
live. It is here that you create a feeling of safety, where you can let
your hair down and be yourself.
A stable home life is very important to you with
Taurus influencing your 4th House. Your home is definitely your security
base, and you may like the idea of staying in one place long enough to
build and feather your nest. The energy of Venus also adds her influence
to this house, adding a need to create true beauty in your personal
environment. Surrounding yourself with the things you love, including
your collection of sentimental favorites, makes you feel much more
secure. You might enjoy living in an environment which seems more
natural rather than living in a city. Trees, lots of green and beautiful
gardens are nurturing to you. If you do live in the city, you'll still
need to have something alive and growing around you. Earth colors are
the perfect compliment in your decor, as are natural wood surroundings
and furnishings.
Just because you don't have planets in your 4th House
don't think that you will not have a home! The sign on the cusp of this
house, explained above, gives you clear information about your approach
to building your nest, and the planet associated with that sign
indicates the energy you use to accomplish that task.
Meeting the World
on Your Terms
Career and financial arenas were for many years
primarily part of the "man's world." Women stayed at home, cared for
children, and took care of the social needs of the family. Now that so
many women are in the work place, and with the advent of more open
relationships where both partners are likely to share paying bills and
making financial decisions, the world is changing. You can define your
identity in the world in many ways today, including developing a career.
Meeting the world on your own terms involves uncovering the manner in
which you might shine most effectively and the way you use your
resources, and creating a pathway which allows you to realize your
goals.
The Midheaven, which is usually near the top of your
astrological chart, is signified by an astrological sign. This point in
your chart represents your vocation, your calling in life, and the sign
at the Midheaven gives you several clues about your path in the outside
world. Just as importantly, the Midheaven signifies your blossoming into
wholeness and the manner by which you might best accomplish this
experience. Your 10th House also provides information about your career
path.
With Scorpio on your Midheaven, you are fascinated by
a life path which allows you to experience transformation and which
supports change and rejuvenation. In your career, you may experience
fulfillment in the healing arts, but you can also be a catalyst for
change in business endeavors. Whether you're restoring furniture,
houses, appliances, businesses, governments or people - you may gain
great satisfaction delving into problems and discovering what lies at
the core. You may also prosper from a livelihood which involves mystery,
intrigue, investigation or research. The energy of Pluto plays an
important role in your ability to achieve personal fulfillment and
recognition, and you may have to deal with power struggles more than
once during the pursuit of your aims. Even when power plays arise which
you have not created, you always have a choice about your responses.
With Pluto in Leo you are not likely to take a back
seat to anyone in career matters, and can be influential in eliminating
barriers which have prevented women from achieving success in the
workplace. In your family your opinions and actions have probably
created a bit of a stir, and you may feel somewhat removed from many of
the old influences which shaped your life as a child. Your efforts to
reform the nature of your personal relationships may extend into the
work place, where you may still meet with power struggles from time to
time.
The process of work itself is usually seen through
the 6th House in your chart. Through this facet of yourself, you express
your approach and attitudes about working, and your ability to cooperate
with others is also indicated here. This house is related to your
physical health, and it's no surprise that you might hear the complaint
(or feel it yourself), "I'm sick of my job." Instead of feeling thrown
off balance by the tasks required to get through life, there are ways to
use this part of your time and energy to strengthen your life.
Your feelings about your work have a direct influence
upon your performance with Cancer ruling your 6th House. It's crucial
that you listen to your intuitive self when choosing a job, and if it
does not feel right, then it's probably not right for you! When you're
hard at work, you'll also find your intuition in high gear, and you can
be quite gifted at blending your intuitive and rational processes to
help strengthen your productivity and insight. With the Moon's energy
connected to this house, you may enjoy working with women or in fields
which concern women and families. You may also find that care-taking
plays an important role in your choice of jobs.
The energy of Uranus in your 6th House signifies your
need to work in fields which will provide opportunities to exercise your
independence and originality. You may find working in scientific,
technological or computer-related areas exciting and positively
challenging, but you're also fascinated by alternative possibilities in
any field. In health care, your leaning toward unconventional methods
may prompt you to work in these areas. Whatever your talents and skills,
your approach to using them is likely to involve something innovative.
You'll also appreciate working in situations which provide ample freedom
and which allow you to tackle a job in your own way. If you're stuck in
a dead-end or unfair circumstance, you are likely to rebel and may even
be responsible for breaking rules which, from your viewpoint, have no
other purpose than to perpetuate an outworn system.
As a woman, you are innately creative. Although you
may not consider yourself an artist, your creative spirit and drive are
the mechanisms through which you shape your own life. Creative
self-expression is seen strongly in the 5th House of your chart, and by
incorporating these elements into your career, you will gain greater
satisfaction from your work. If you have the time to concentrate on more
recreational forms of creativity, this is the part of your chart which
indicates what brings you pleasure. Life itself can certainly be a
pleasurable experience - all the time, not just on holidays!
Gemini's qualities in your 5th House bring your need
for variety into the world of your own creativity and personal artistry.
You may have many talents, and may find it difficult to focus on just
one at a time. This multifaceted approach to your creativity can
actually be quire rewarding, as long as you don't feel that you're too
scattered. You may love playful activities which require excellent
manual dexterity or mental gymnastics. Whether you're playing an
instrument, writing, juggling or enjoying others who excel in these or
similar areas - such experiences heighten your spirits. A good
conversation can also inspire your creativity, as can travel. Mercury's
influence is strong here through its association with Gemini, adding a
mental dimension to your creativity. For recreation you may prefer to do
different things according to your mood and inclination instead of the
same thing all of the time. Some of these activities may be geared
toward children (your own or others'), and you may be quite adept at
understanding and communicating with kids of all ages. After all, when
you play, you may hear the little girl inside you giggling in delight.
She's never too far away!
Jupiter's energy in your 5th House adds greater
emphasis to your need for creative self-expression, and to your desire
to enjoy life. You may have several areas of talent or expertise, and
need to find a way to utilize as many dimensions of your creativity as
you can. Travel and education may inspire your imagination. One thing is
sure, though: you're rarely without inspiration. If for some reason you
think you are, try breaking up your routine temporarily. The change of
pace and new perspective can ignite all sorts of possibilities!
One of the most powerful creative drives in your
chart is your Sun. Since this is the energy which can drive you to be
noticed, learning to cultivate this aspect of yourself in a positive
manner can amplify your success in life.
You're probably pretty intelligent, like learning,
and have an adventurous drive with your Sagittarius Sun. But you may be
afraid of success. It's that unknown question about where to aim. If you
aim for your high ideals, you could possibly fall short, so you might
compromise for something else, just because it's quickly reachable. Then
what's that yearning in your heart? Could it be the desire for something
more!? There is your drive to success, and it's the adventure itself
which gives you the feeling that makes the light in your eyes. After
all, when you do reach that pinnacle, you'll just aim for something new!
Your individuality is expressed through many
different energies in your chart, but the energy which is most closely
associated with the unique and individualistic part of yourself is
Uranus. Through Uranian energy, you display your ingenuity and make the
breakthroughs which allow you to move into new experiences. Uranus also
prompts your rebellious nature, and the placement of this energy in your
chart shows you where you are staging your own personal revolution.
With Uranus in Cancer you've been born into a life of
society's revolution within the family and have experienced the
development of new insights into emotional needs. Along with other women
born from 1948 to 1956, your revolution has been fought in the kitchen,
over matters of reproduction, and at family reunions. You've changed the
roles women play and the expectations of women in the world,
consequently bringing an evolution in family relationships and within
society itself: an evolutionary change which is continuing in its
effects. Your shared insights have included a world where girls and
women have the same opportunities as boys and men. To understand where
you are creating this revolution within your own life, look to the house
in which Uranus resides in your chart.
Uranus in your 6th House has been discussed
previously in this section of your chart.
The energy of Chiron is also a powerful factor for
your outreach into the world. Through Chiron, you discover both strength
and vulnerability. The vulnerability represented by Chiron is, in many
ways, like a doorway which allows you to penetrate a deeper level of
personal mastery. This is the process of initiation not unlike that
which a Shaman must endure in order to learn how to travel between the
worlds. Through Chiron, you learn how to travel between the world of
your inner self and the world outside to achieve a sense of true purpose
and wisdom.
You have Chiron in Capricorn, adding a need to
accomplish a life purpose which is based upon achieving a true sense of
success. These successes can be in any area, and are not always related
to career. Supporting a child as a patient mother or teacher, providing
resources when something need to be built in your community, or lending
a helping hand can all be part of this. On a personal level you need to
establish goals and find ways to realize them. Sometimes, the goal may
just be getting through the day. On a larger scale you are also learning
about positive self-control. It is here that you will experience the
greatest satisfaction, when you've found the best ways to direct your
own energy toward accomplishing something which is meaningful to you.
With Chiron in your 12th House you'll discover that
your life purpose is centered around the things you do for the
collective. Whether you're giving some of your time and energy to
charitable causes, working in public institutions or concentrating on
world peace during your meditations, you need to reach out with your
energy into the part of yourself which connects to all that is.
Opening Your Heart
Ah, Love.... Songs, poems, novels, fairy-tales,
movies all extol the power and pleasure of love - and for good reason:
love is the food of life! There are many opportunities to love, in fact,
a love affair with life is not a bad idea. But you also may need to
"grow" love by sharing it, and therein is the seed of all relationships.
The planetary energies which are most usually
associated with love are Venus and Neptune. Venusian energy radiates
directly from your heart, from the center of yourself, where love
resides deep within. Loving is an inner experience. The more you open to
the love you hold within yourself, the more it grows. Your feelings of
worthiness are represented by Venus, and as you grow to understand and
appreciate your own value as a woman, it becomes easier to let this love
energy flow through your life. Neptunian energy is Divine compassionate
love - the love which does not judge and readily forgives. Neptune is
the realm of romance, mysticism and heavenly perfection. Truly
transcendent Neptunian love arises when you have healthy boundaries of
your own, otherwise, you can become a victim of your own illusions!
Your Sagittarian Venus adds a desire for ultimate
experiences through love. Your expectations of love are quite high, and
through loving, you affirm your faith in life itself. Although you heard
about Prince Charming when you were a little girl, you probably felt
that you could ride a horse just as easily as he, and may have wondered
how Sleeping Beauty could ever have just slept through so much of her
life. Those fairy tales are not your vision of love. You envision a love
filled with adventure, excitement and fun. When you love, you laugh and
smile a lot. It's that juicy stuff of love which adds a real sweetness
to your life. The passion of the moment can sometimes carry you away,
and you do have a tendency to jump into emotional situations before you
think about the consequences. Learning to make choices which will allow
growth, maturity and time to work to your advantage is not always easy.
You're driven by, "I want it now!" As you've matured, you've found that
a love which invites honesty, truth and understanding is the most
fulfilling, although you've got to share a sense of humor or you may
lose interest.
With your Moon and Venus in semisquare aspect, you
may struggle between meeting your needs and fulfilling your wants. You
may be attracted to men for all the wrong reasons, which can ultimately
result in feeling that your needs are not met. One safeguard which will
help you create more fulfilling relationships is to maintain an
awareness of your feelings when you're in a vulnerable state. Give
yourself time to heal, make the effort to achieve closure when
relationships end, and watch your own motivations when you are entering
relationships.
Talking about your feelings can enhance your love
relationships, and it's easy for you to express your feelings with
Mercury conjunct Venus. You may be most attracted to someone whose sense
of refinement is well-developed, and may find it much easier to open
your heart to a man who appreciates your ideas and enjoys open
communication.
You have some conflict between your passions and
emotions with Venus in semisquare aspect to Mars. Part of the problem
arises when your interest in and attraction to someone is heating up and
you are not quite ready for action. Despite your efforts to appear
somewhat demure, your eagerness to experience contact can override your
best judgment, and you tend to jump in too quickly. This can leave you
feeling unduly exposed emotionally. If you are hurt, you can become
somewhat punitive in your actions and attitudes, which can undermine
your ability to really resolve conflict or turmoil in your
relationships. Establishing an emotional pace which allows you to feel
less exposed will resolve many of the potential problems which can arise
from this influence.
With Venus in semisextile aspect to Saturn, you're
probably interested in the idea of commitment before you completely give
your heart away. First of all, once you give the love in your heart, it
does NOT disappear! And secondly, the real commitment that you're
making is the one you make to yourself. Discovering that you are the one
who generates the love you feel and that you are the one who controls
how much of that love you give to others can lead you to become more
self-assured in your relationships. The love readily replenishes itself
the more it is shared. But most importantly, the real magic is that when
you truly open your heart to love, the love itself streams into an
eternal process. Now, that's a commitment!
As one of the generation of women born with Neptune
in Libra, you have been inundated with endless images, stories and myths
about true love and romance. You've dreamt of the perfect marriage and
may have believed that you would, indeed, be rescued by that perfect
prince. But as you've grown up, you've found out that the prince may not
only be late, but that he may not arrive at all! Hope springs eternal,
however, and thanks to open discussion about relationship, you've also
learned about addiction, codependency and dysfunctionality and some ways
to get out of these patterns and traps. Rule number one: Create your own
dream by understanding yourself and your needs. From that point, you
begin to separate from the trap of the collective still searching for
the perfect other, and from the beacon of your own soul, you send out a
light that attracts someone who may, indeed, fit your needs quite nicely
after all.
Since your Sun and Neptune are in a semisquare
aspect, you may have trouble seeing men as they are. Your dream of the
perfect man has probably met defeat more than once when you've awakened
to realize that there is no such animal. You still can fall into the
trap of seeing only the illusion and failing to realize the real person.
Once you have a stronger sense of yourself as a whole person, you will
not be tempted to project so much of yourself onto the men in your life.
With your Mars and Neptune in conjunction you may
project a powerful illusion about the nature of your perfect man. You
may think you want a man who embodies all the traits you dream about,
but may discover, instead, that you attract men who are never what they
seemed to be in the beginning. The problem may be in what you project
onto the men who capture your heart. If you see only the illusion of
perfection, you are already in trouble, since if anyone is still in
human form, chances are that they are not perfect! You may be a very
sensitive woman who desires a sensitive man, and that's wonderful as
long as the sensitivity does not extend to behaviors which are deceptive
or abusive. If you've felt victimized, it's crucial that you discover
your own role in the victimization so that you can change your patterns.
Learn to say "No."
With Jupiter in trine aspect to Neptune you need to
incorporate a sense of spirituality into your intimate relationships. It
is important that you find a partner who shares your morals and beliefs,
although you can be quite open to differences as long as you agree on
principles. You may discover your perfect partner while in pursuit of
your spiritual quests.
With Uranus and Neptune in square aspect to one
another, you are part of a generation filled with an uncomfortable
concern for religious and spiritual ideals. You may not know whom you
can trust in the worlds of politics and business, and are likely to
struggle with your search for a meaningful spiritual path which is part
of the framework of your life on its most intimate level. It's important
that you learn ways to identify fanaticism, since you can either fall
victim to others and their fanatical ideals or become too overbearing
with your own. The influence of these energies can be problematic in
relationships, particularly if you do not trust your inner voice and
allow another to determine your needs in areas which you must discover
for yourself.
The houses in your chart which amplify love
relationships are the 5th, 7th, and 11th Houses. Through the 5th House,
you experience giving love. It is through this facet of yourself that
you have love affairs, playful and recreational relationships and where
you produce the offspring of loving. The offspring can range from
artistic endeavors to children. But when dealing with relationships,
this is the space which is usually occupied by loving another in an
intimate sense.
You enjoy love affairs which stimulate an exciting
meeting of the minds. Gemini's influence on your 5th House can be rather
distracting when it comes to matters of the heart. Your delight in
someone different can tempt you to carry on more than one relationship
at a time, just to keep your life interesting. You can have trouble
committing to just one person, since there are many different facets of
your personality which need to be satisfied through your love
relationships. Mercury's influence in this house confers a clever
mentality which is the nectar you use to attract the bees to your
romantic hive. For a man to appeal to your heart, he will first have to
get through the gates of your mind. That man whose intelligence matches
his dexterity as a lover can fare quite nicely.
Jupiter's energy in your 5th House adds a dimension
of adventure to your love life. You might be most fascinated by someone
whose cultural or educational background is different from your own. An
intelligent and thoughtful man will be extremely interesting and
fascinating to you. Travel, learning and lively discussion can all spark
your interest and accessibility. You'll feel much more excited about a
relationship which encourages your freedom of expression, too.
The 7th House of your chart illustrates what you're
seeking from a partner. More importantly, this part of your chart also
tells a story about the kind of partner you really want to become. This
is also the realm of social contact, and provides information about your
approach to socialization. Although marriage agreements are shown
through the 7th House, planets here (or a lack of planets here) do not
"promise" marriage or its lack. But if your 7th House is highly
activated, you may be more motivated to find a partner.
With Leo's qualities influencing your Descendant you
may seek a partner who will support your ego needs, although you may not
be particularly open about that desire. You also need to be proud of
your mate, and will be more capable of supporting him in his efforts
when he seems to be making the most of his life. Since the energy of
your Sun influences this area, you can become too self-absorbed. Or, if
you've not developed a sense of yourself, may feel that your identity is
defined by your partner. It's important that you deal with your ego's
needs within your relationships, and that includes your need to play
roles which allow you to shine from time to time. However, it's just as
important to make room for true equanimity within your partnerships.
Creating harmony within the realm of partnerships can
be very challenging with the energy of Pluto in your 7th House. If
you've developed a conscious awareness of the manner in which you handle
control issues, you are familiar with your need to hold the reins of
power within your relationships. Although you may not do this directly,
since you can be the power behind the throne, you still can be highly
influential concerning the effects and outcome of marriage and
partnerships. In many respects, marriage can provide the catalyst for
your awakening and healing, but the wrong marriage can also be extremely
wounding. If you're in a healthy relationship, each of you will be
transformed by the experience of working in harmony with one another.
There is also the tendency to attract abusive relationships, and you may
wonder about the power issues in such a context. It may be readily
apparent to you that you are being abused, and you must come to grips
with your role in the abuse. Once you realize that you do not need to
repeat the same wounds, you are altering your life course. By
transforming your own attitudes toward yourself and your mate, you can
extract yourself from abusive patterns and move into an experience of
healing.
It is through the 11th House that you learn about
unconditional relationships, and where you open to receiving love and
support from others. Here you find your friends, your supportive
professional allies, and your community. Through this facet of yourself
you develop your special interests. And here you set your goals for the
future. It's wonderful the way friends can support your aims, provide
feedback when you need objectivity, and comfort you when you're facing
challenges. Your approach to friendship is also seen through this part
of your chart.
You have Sagittarius on the cusp of your 11th House
signifying that you thoroughly enjoy your friendships. You feel that you
can't have too many friends, and your circle of friendships is likely to
include people from diverse and interesting backgrounds. Joining with
your friends to generate interest and enthusiasm in an idea or project
adds fire to your soul, and you may be especially influential in
organizational or political efforts. Your closest friends will share
your beliefs and philosophies about life, and may even inspire you to
pursue your spirituality in a more meaningful manner. However, you may
not always be a reliable friend when it comes to being there all the
time. You need friends who will understand your far-reaching approach to
life which requires a great deal of freedom and independence. With
Jupiter's influence in this area, you can be quite generous with your
time and energy toward your friends, and if you can open a door for
someone, you will. You do appreciate the generosity of others, and when
you've been the recipient of affection and good will, can open your
heart and show gratitude. But you may not like deeply emotional shows of
affection, especially in public. The best way to open your heart to love
is through laughter, especially when it's stimulated by a genuine warmth
and good natured humor.
The lack of planetary energy in your 11th House can
be indicative of your ability to accomplish many of your aims on your
own. There is, however, no particular meaning which is related to a lack
of friends or inability to create friendships. Look to the planet which
rules this house to understand the qualities you will seek in your
friends and the kinds of activities you might prefer to share with them.
Power Issues:
Sex, Money and Control
Personal power is an individual expression, and has
different meanings for each person. As a woman in the world today, your
opportunity to experience and express your personal power is largely
dependent upon the manner in which you develop it. Particularly in the
Western World, as times have changed and the power base has gradually
evolved beyond the patriarchal control of the last centuries, women are
seeking to define their place in the world: collectively and
individually. Gaining influence in the world through career and
financial development, you begin to understand the different levels of
power. Within the family, your roles are also evolving. You are also
more free to express your sexual needs and desires, and demand that you
are respected as a person and not sexually abused. But everything stems
from your ability to identify, embrace and assimilate the true nature of
your power as an individual woman.
On a personal level, you can begin to identify much
about your own power by looking deeply into the meaning of your 1st
House: Your Personality Self. Early in your report you read about what
you project about yourself as identified by your Ascendant. Your first
House further defines that projection of the Self, and is an area where
you carve out much about the way you show yourself to the world on your
own terms.
Through the qualities of Aquarius on your Ascendant
your personal power is most readily expressed when you feel truly free.
You like being different, and may even go out of your way to make sure
that others know you are not cut from the same cloth as the rest of the
herd. As a little girl, you may have felt isolated because you were
different, but you've probably learned that your differences are what
define your sense of identity, and these differences can be the basis
for your personal power. You may still feel a little insecure, and if
you have experienced isolation or chastisement because of your
differences, you can become negatively rebellious. If you carry your
rebellion into destructive avenues, you can quickly lose power.
Sometimes, you use rebellion as a power play, and may feel that if you
overturn the status quo that everything will automatically change for
the better. Clear motives are crucial to the outcome of your
revolutionary actions, words or thoughts. You can be an effective
instigator by creating change and making breakthroughs. Aloof resistance
may not be your best avenue, however. Cooperative, collective efforts
may be even more effective, especially if you're ready to challenge an
outworn attitude, law or social system. In these instances, your
intelligent ideas and innovative methods can make an exceptional
difference.
Since you do not have planets in your 1st House your
personality expression may not be overpowered by the drive of a
particular energy. The qualities associated with the sign on this house
cusp, explained above, since through as the primary manner in which you
want to be seen by the world.
Another power space on your chart is your Midheaven.
This point, which is usually at the top of your chart and marks the cusp
of the 10th House, is like the crown and torch of the Statue of Liberty.
Here too, are the indicators of the types of people you most admire, and
the clues to what you need to develop within yourself to attain
unshakable self-respect.
Through your Scorpio Midheaven you may have a deep
desire to achieve a position of power, although this does not mean that
you necessarily have to gain massive recognition. You may even prefer to
work behind the scenes and can accomplish things which infiltrate
society and create transformational change without ever having your name
in the headlines. Your admiration for those who can get to the heart of
the matter in any field is very strong, and you appreciate individuals
who are willing to rise above corruption or whose efforts expose
corruption. Since you may be drawn to investigate many of life's
ultimate issues, you will frequently come face to face with raw power.
What you do with it is up to you.
With the Sun in your 10th House you need recognition
and you may be highly ambitious. Your sense of identity is strongly tied
to your career and it is imperative that you develop a career path which
looks good on you! You may excel in careers which allow you to take a
position of leadership and where you can direct things in your own way.
The nature of work which suits you best is further defined by your Sun's
sign and aspects to your Sun, but the sign and ruler of your Midheaven
(explained below) are also influences which you will incorporate into
your sense of personal fulfillment through career.
Mercury's energy in your 10th House indicates that
you can be highly adept in a career which requires you to develop your
mind and communicative capacities. Whether you're writing, editing,
teaching or researching, you'll enjoy a field which challenges your
mind. You'll feel at home in a career centered around young people or
work which requires keen manual dexterity.
With Venus influencing your 10th House you may be
fascinated with the prospect of a career in the arts. At the very least
your personal artistry needs to be expressed and acknowledged through
your career path. Your love of beautiful things can be incorporated into
your career, as can your awareness and ability to work in fields which
are of interest in women. Relationship counseling, public relations,
image counseling, fashion design, the beauty industry, interior
decorating - all these areas appeal to your Venusian energy. Your knack
of endearing others to you and your charm and grace can be beneficial in
almost any career capacity.
With your Moon in semisquare aspect to your
Midheaven, you need to be aware of your subconscious feelings about
achieving success. If you are afraid of success or if you fear failure,
it's important to find out why. Then you can work on your inner dragons
and change your approach to accomplishing a sense of self-fulfillment.
The energy of Mercury in conjunction to your
Midheaven adds a strong mentality to your power base. You're more
empowered when your mind is stimulated and when you have an opportunity
to express your ideas. You may also be drawn to work in fields which are
oriented to education, communication or travel for these same reasons.
Variety in your career activities is also strengthening, since
repetitive actions may not be very mentally stimulating at all!
Although you may not be driven to accomplish success
for the power it brings, you can enjoy positive benefits from becoming
an influential woman. Your aims are underscored by your desire to
express your artistry and creativity, and by cultivating your talents,
you will achieve great success. You may also do quite well in the
business world, since you have a good understanding of money and the
value of things. Being a woman works to your advantage, because you
innately know how to use your feminine strengths to your advantage. This
aspect helps to assure that others will acknowledge the value of your
efforts in your chosen field of endeavor.
Your special talents are an extreme asset to
achieving success in the world. With the energy of Uranus in trine
aspect to your Midheaven, you can use your individuality to your best
advantage most of the time. You're here to create some new pathways.
Forging ahead into innovative or unusual areas of endeavor will insure
success on many levels. You will feel most powerful when you achieve a
sense of independence through your ambitions.
Neptune's influence through the semisextile aspect to
your Midheaven adds a need to experience fulfillment through serving the
needs of others. Success for its own sake will probably not appeal to
you, but if your success allows you to make a difference in the quality
of life, you will happily utilize it in that capacity. You're not
necessarily driven to achieve the kind of power which feels like
control, but are prompted by the need to feel the power of connection
which arises from your spirituality.
You may learn about power the hard way. With Pluto in
square aspect to your Midheaven, you've probably experienced some
disappointments in your lifetime which are the results of some type of
abuse. Whether this abuse was physical or psychological, whether it was
from the hands of someone you trusted or a system which failed you, you
may feel that you can use your personal trauma as an excuse for lack of
accomplishment. You may decide to set your targets on destruction, and
you have the power to be quite destructive. But in the process you
destroy yourself. Amazingly, you also have the capacity to use your pain
to heal yourself and can experience a renewal of power which is
unequaled. Then, your influence and use of power can have a very
different effect: that of clearing the way for healing in the world
around you.
Someone once said that money makes the world go
around, and from all evidence, it certainly seems to be a powerful
force. Money, in fact, symbolizes power. With money, you can have what
you want. With more money, you can have more of what you want. Without
money, you may want what you cannot have. Your relationship with money
is an extremely intimate and seductive force. The way you use your
resources - money, time, energy - says a lot about how you perceive your
own power and personal worth. This facet of yourself is expressed
through the 2nd House of your chart. Here, you express your value
systems. The important special link between finances and self-esteem
cannot be understated, and is especially important for you as a woman.
In order to extract the real value of your talents and services from
others in the world (such as what you are paid from your job), you must
first value yourself.
The qualities of Pisces radiate through your 2nd
House, indicating that you need to learn the spiritual significance of
your material resources. You feel better about yourself when you're
sharing what you have, but may not always know when to draw the line
between your personal needs and the needs of those around you. This is
true on the material plane through your finances and in the realm of
your personal energy, which is another resource. Neptune's influence in
this house adds a need for caution where finances are concerned since
you can miss important details which could be costly in the long run if
you're just looking on the surface. You may also have difficulty keeping
track of your resources, and need to devise some type of system that
will help you maintain a connection between what you have and what you
can afford to spend. Giving up control of your finances to someone else
may seem to be the easy way out, but if you do so, you still need to
know what's happening or you may wake up one day to discover that you
have no idea about how to deal with this part of your life.
Just because your 2nd House is empty do not think
that you'll be without money. This can, in fact, be a strong indicator
that money matters will not be a primary drive in your life. Self-esteem
issues may not be extremely powerful for you either, although you can
strengthen your sense of self-worth by embracing the qualities
associated with the sign which is on the cusp of this house.
Resources which you share with others are reflected
in the 8th House of your chart. Whether you're considering joint
property and finances, inheritance, insurance settlements or tax
obligations, this area is not as free and easy as the 2nd House, which
seems more like what you want for yourself alone. Another layer of this
part of your life deals with your sexuality, and the manner in which you
open intimately to others. This is a very personal space, and it is
probably one of the most guarded aspects of any woman's psyche. It is
here that much wounding has taken place over many centuries, and it is
here that the mask of propriety has to be removed in order to openly
accept and integrate that fact that you are a person who needs wholeness
and healing, and who yearns to bond at the most alchemical level with
life itself.
Here you also find your compulsions. It's no wonder
that you don't display this part of yourself to just anybody. You have
to feel safe to open this facet of yourself, and you realize that this
vulnerability can be used against you in power plays. But what you may
not always remember is that this is also where you have the power! In
true tantric traditions, it is through the vessel of a woman's sexual
energy that a couple can ride the wave of sexual ecstasy. This also
extends to the other power aspects of any relationship. If your
transformational and magical qualities are blocked, the whole of the
relationship will suffer.
Your approach to sexual intimacy can be rather
methodical with Virgo influencing your 8th House. But you do have your
sensual side, and can enjoy the experience of sharing with another on
this intimate level. You may be a very good technician sexually, and may
enjoy learning all sorts of things about sexuality; but you can't really
experience the depths of intimacy from this mental level alone. You're
probably pretty picky about your sexual partners, and may not feel
particularly comfortable allowing true intimacy. That intimacy which
involves sharing on multiple levels can be a real test for you, and the
key to getting there may be openly talking about your needs with your
partner. In matters of joint finances, the resources you create together
are probably well-defined, and you may make some effort to spend your
money with knowledge and insight. You'll be happiest when you reach a
real consensus with your partner over joint expenditures, since you
don't really like to compromise, especially where quality is concerned.
Finding a partner you can trust in financial matters may be like a gift
from the heavens for you, since you may not always be confident in your
own financial awareness by yourself.
With Mars in your 8th House you may feel driven to
explore your sexuality as fully as possible. This can be positively
regenerating, if your relationships are healthy. But you can also run
into major power struggles if you've not established your own sense of
strength. Sometimes, it's difficult for you to draw the line between
pain and pleasure, and although you may push your limits, sometimes you
can exhaust your own energy if you go too far. You may also experience
cruelty, abuse or emotional pain through your intimate relationships,
particularly if you jump into situations before you've explored their
true nature. Although this energy can ultimately bring healing into your
life, you need to clarify for yourself why you attract abuse in the
first place if you are to avoid falling into the same traps in the
future.
You really do not have to sacrifice yourself in order
to have the intimacy you desire, but with Neptune's energy in your 8th
House, you may be tempted to give up your own desires to those of your
partner. You're better off playing fantasy games, role playing, and
using your sexual dramas to keep your interest in each other strong and
passionate. Although the fairy tales may lead you to believe that Prince
Charming will come along and wake you from your long sleep and carry you
off to his castle, that is rarely the case! Your dream of an
all-consuming love can work against you, since allowing your needs to be
consumed by anyone can be quite dangerous. But allowing your selfish
desires to drown in the sea of passion from time to time can be another
story. You also need to be very careful in dealings with joint finances,
because your tendency is to trust without qualification, and that can
suck up your power right away. You may be very psychic about your
partner and his abilities, but you still need to know what's happening
with your resources!
Mars energy is about getting what you want by going
after it. Mars is drive. Mars is courage. Mars is desire. Mars is
unabashed sexuality. Mars is the fuel for personal power. Men do Mars
quite effectively, right down to fighting and war. But you also have a
warrior spirit, an Amazon Self. This is your Mars. If you fail to own
and utilize your own Martian force, you lose power.
Although you have definite ideas about what is and is
not proper in relationships between men and women, you can throw caution
to the wind when you're strongly attracted to a man. With Mars in Libra
you may spend a lot of time thinking about the right partner, and if you
think you've found him, may not have a lot of patience when he hems and
haws trying to decide whether or not to ask you out. Go ahead. Take the
lead. Then at least you'll know something. And you can do things which
still give him a chance to salvage his pride. You probably know all of
those techniques from long years of practice. Your power is strengthened
through your charm and grace but is undermined when you're lazy or too
dependent. Just because you think having the right man will make life
easier, don't count on it. Your relationships are your proving ground
where you learn that you must stand up for yourself and ask for what you
need. They also provide your opportunity to really become considerate of
the needs of your partner. In the bedroom you love all that romantic
stuff - the pretty design, soft pillows, sweet fragrance, the right
lighting, wonderful music - and when you've got the ambiance just right,
then you may feel you can let your passions loose. Sexual sharing which
allows for a real exchange of energy, exemplified by tantric teachings,
may be just what you've needed. That old approach of two minutes and
you're done just does not satisfy your needs to feel the bond you want
with your partner. But it may not be him who's resisting.
Mars and Pluto in sextile to one another is like a
special potion of strength and power - but you have to learn to tap into
this power if it's going to do you any good! You have the capability to
understand and experience levels of personal strength and control that
can set you aside from the ordinary. You may also enjoy the pure ecstasy
of your own sexuality and will appreciate a partner whose desires can be
as unfettered as your own. Although there may be other blocks from
frustrating energies elsewhere in your chart, this is the quality which
can allow you to transform difficulties and overcome adversity.
Saturn plays the role of the big controller in your
life. Sometimes that control seems to come from outside. You know - all
the rules and regulations, the authority figures, the intimidating
people who tell you what to do - this is the Saturn of the outside
world. But you have the same traffic cop in the back of your own mind,
telling you what is right and wrong, chiding you when you make a
mistake, holding you back when you're about to do something stupid.
Saturn control can be a good thing. This is your energy for
self-discipline, clarity and focus. You need Saturn. But you need Saturn
in its most productive sense. You do not need the guilt, intimidation
and self-limitation that keep you from having what you require from
life.
You are learning about the power of ultimate life
experiences with Saturn in Scorpio. Although you can be very
controlling, you may also attract people who test your self-control and
whose emotional impact in your life tests the line between love and
hate. You can be an extremist, and if you allow your energy to swing too
far in one direction, the drain of energy required to bring everything
back into balance can drain your power. You need to experience what it's
like to exercise power over your own life, and may fight bitterly with
anyone who tries to get in the way of decisions which involve your
personal sanctity - decisions over such things as reproduction, medical
care, choices about death. Before you can deal with these things
effectively, you have to know how you feel and what drives you in these
matters. Just giving in to your fears, guilt or shame in these areas
will quickly drain your vital force, and leave you open to the control
of others. You are faced with learning the difference between
destructive uses of power and healing transformation.
The semisquare connection between your Sun and Saturn
adds a sense of anxiety to your personal identity. You may continually
wonder if you've met your mark, and even when you succeed, may focus
more on your mistakes than your accomplishments. It's not easy to allow
joy into your life when all you can think about are your limitations,
but you'll be able to open that window a bit when you train your focus
upon your strengths, too.
Plutonian control is sometimes difficult to grasp,
but it's definitely there. When you feel this control from outside
yourself, it is undermining and extremely intimidating. The force of
Pluto is buried deep within your psyche. It is unleashed and grows in a
manner like the process of mitosis in a fertilized cell, which is
altered, splits off, combines with other cells and ultimately becomes an
organism. Through Pluto, you experience the power of life, birth,
healing, and the ultimate change of death. If you are trapped in a mire
of shame, guilt and self-destructiveness, you may have undergone a
Plutonian transformation as a result of trauma earlier in your life. But
it is this same force which plants the seeds of change that eventually
can lead to the creation of a new self.
Pluto's energy in your 7th House brings direct power
struggles within cooperative relationships and partnerships. You may
resist the idea of a functional partnership because you do not want to
give up control. Or you may attract a partner who overwhelms you with
his power when you do not trust your own ability to direct your life.
You cannot escape power issues. One way or another, you must realize
that you really do have the power to direct your own life and to reflect
your power in a positive sense. Until you finally exercise that power,
you can be caught in an endless game of transforming yourself to fit
your partner's needs or finding that you are never what you want to be.
Try looking in the mirror. The woman looking back at you is important.
You were born with Uranus and Pluto in semisextile to
one another, an aspect which occurs only rarely (usually about once or
twice in a century), and which has a generational influence. Alongside
others in society you may have exceptional opportunities to bring new
ideologies and unusual social changes into operation during your
lifetime, but you may also take steps on your own to alter the status
quo.
Your special talents are an extreme asset to
achieving success in the world. With the energy of Uranus in trine
aspect to your Midheaven, you can use your individuality to your best
advantage most of the time. You're here to create some new pathways.
Forging ahead into innovative or unusual areas of endeavor will insure
success on many levels. You will feel most powerful when you achieve a
sense of independence through your ambitions.
Embracing Your
Divine Self
In western society today it's okay to admit that
women are Goddesses. This, in itself, implies that the power of The
Source may not be solely masculine. In essence, this power contains All
That Is, but as a woman, you express it through your Goddess Self. This
part of yourself is always there when you feel abandoned or alone to
give you comfort. Your Goddess Self is standing firmly beside you when
you face a major challenge, sharing her strength and support. Your
Goddess Self opens the doors to Truth and Understanding. She is the
essence of all that is Love. Look in the mirror. Stare deeply into your
own eyes and you will see her reflected back at you.
When you need to get in touch with your inner being,
an exercise in guided imagery can help you make the transition from your
everyday thinking to heightened awareness. Take a few minutes to make
this journey. Before you begin, find time to be alone. Sit or lie down
in a comfortable position in a place that feels safe to you. Take three
deep breaths. With each breath, release the tension from your body as
you exhale. As you inhale, fill yourself with energy, light and inner
calm. Then, close your eyes, and take one more relaxing breath.
Imagine that you are on a journey during autumn, when
the colors are at their peak. You arrive at a place which is
breathtaking, hillsides covered with all the brilliant colors which
reflect into a lake. It is here that you decide to walk under the warm
sun, just so you can hear the leaves rustling beneath your feet. All the
smells and sounds fill your heart with laughter. As the breezes blow
gently around you, the leaves dance 'round your head and feet. From out
of nowhere, you see a figure in the distance, walking toward you. You
cannot help but go toward it, and as you draw closer together you see a
beautiful woman dressed in black. In her gloved hands, she holds a small
wooden box. She hands the box to you and smiles. "This box contains a
great secret," she tells you. "But to open it, you must have the key. I
give you this key, but you may use it only once." After the woman walks
away, you hold the box and key in your hands, and wonder if it's okay to
open it. You think of all kinds of reason why you should or should not
open the box. Then you hear her voice, "Try it. Once." You insert the
key into the lock, and open the box. Inside, there is a beautiful
crystal prism. You hold it up to the light to look into it. Each time
you look into the crystal, you see something different. You see your
childhood, your present life, and you see your future. But whenever you
look into those images, you are smiling and filled with joy. "This is
the part of you which has always presided at each of your life events.
She is always there, waiting for you to acknowledge her." And then you
hear laughter. "Once is all you need to know the truth."
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